Woooo! 

K lo k, dimelo.. Wass happenin? 

Shit real or nah? 

You know it is. 

5 planets in retrograde, so the energy is definitely different.. The orbit of our solar system affect us directly in multiple ways.. Many of us are dumb to think we are above the orbit. Smh we are orbits… Funny how sometimes we go into our own personal retrograde, shit gets real then. And shit real now. 

I’m feeling good though, continuing to test out theories and push my progression. 

I love that I am able to be completely honest with myself even when that means revealing how I am wrong. That’s right to me! To face the error in your ways, despite it proving you were deluded or wrong, makes you right. You know this. 

Act accordingly. 

We do not have to explain ourselves to anyone verbally, we must however always explain in action. Action is what seals right and wrong. Progressive or destructive. 

We must be impeccable with our word, our daily word. 

You don’t keep your word, you lied. 

We can’t tell these form of lies, which in turn weaken our power. We speak of things we don’t ACT on. When your actions speak for you, why talk? Stfu. 

Shut up. Just keep moving. Say less. 

Do more. 

24hours in a day, 168 in a week… How you breaking it up? 

See halftime coming, and shit is clicking. Half of the year will be up… What have you done? What are you doing? What the fuck are you waiting for? 

Remind yourself what it is you want, who it is you are. 

Who you want to be is who you are, the only thing stopping you is who you are today.. Levels to fruition with desire. Stop doubting yourself. 

Literally you have nothing to lose! Nothing!! Worst case scenario you fall short? You’re one step closer. Best case scenario, you’re further than you envisioned. 

Ask yourself, guide yourself. Consult with yourself. You deserve to enjoy the life you live. Get your shit together, mind your business and stay hydrated. 

Summer approaches us, another season.. 

You become what you think about, what’s really on your mind?? 

Sidebar: dweling on your “misfortunes” is a waste of time after the lesson is learned, half of that lesson is ALWAYS, move on, it could’ve been worse. Be grateful to experience the pain.. As odd as that may sound, to feel is a blessing and the pain is just a price we pay in exchange for all the joy and bliss we do experience.. The calm and peace are cherished because of chaos and desperation.. Keep that in mind. Life will never be fair in the way we want it, life is fair by not caring at all. It’s going to happen, whether it’s pleasurable or painful. Accepting that eases the confusion and saves you time. Take the gems, keep going. Time is a factor. Moving forward is a must. 

Shit real… I got work to do. 

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No fool..

2nd quarter is here. 

The next three months are crucial. 

I’m going to take my approach to another level I have many things for May planned and literally less than a month to flex, so let’s go. Let’s get it moving. 

I’m still feeling so weird. But I must prove to myself this is it. 

Halftime is 2months away 

Shit real. 

Don’t be a fool and think you have all the time in the world, while you’re dreaming. 

Action overrides intent. 

It doesn’t matter what you intended, it doesn’t matter what was supposed to happen, what happened is what it is. Nothing more, nothing less. 

Let’s be smart and wise about life and ourselves, first and foremost. Shit gets realer and we must remain diligent with our discipline. 

I will master this. 

Practice while I preach, long winded, for longevity. 

I do what I want… What do I really want? 

Time to find out. 

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March MADNESS! 

I am in great spirit. I know you can feeeeeel the vibes. 

First quarter was a bit rough, had to come to terms and flex a bit on a few aspects of my life. I withdrew from everything and dug deeper than the last time.. 

I am now ready for this second quarter. 

We are in March. 

March – April – May 

June is half time.  (6/12)

The irony that it’s also my birthday. 

(25 on the 10th) 

Shit is real. 

The first quarter help prep me for this second coming of Cris* it has already started off smoothly, and will continue to roll out as such. I’m taking a trip this week, and it will be everything I need. 

I’m so aware, it’s nerve wrecking. I’m calming myself and maintaining that sense of cool.. By reminding myself of where I’m coming from, and where I’m going. Where I’m at is just another step along the way. Also, weed helps. A lot. 

I’m working on myself as I work on everything else, per usual. I feel better. 

It’s a lot going on, a lot I could be distracted by .. I’m focused though. I love that even my distractions are still things pertaining to me and my goal, it’s just the timing of the thought or act is not in alignment with what I’m doing right now. What needs to be tended to now, has to be the focus, to make what is attempting to distract me, no longer that. 

Distractions are funny though, we choose what we allow to distract us.. So in a sense, our attention level of energy that we refuse to use for the task at hand yet so helplessly wander over to something that’s for next month. 
Is it that we deem the distraction more important, bc it’s not the task at hand?  The task at hand seems done as you get through it so you allow yourself to be side tracked? Is a distraction merely a revelation? Only we know for ourselves. 

I say all that to say this, 

The thought is just a thought until desire makes it an action.

You are your desires. 

Are you focused? Are you doing what you desire? If not, what’s distracting you? Are you taking the steps needed to live the lifestyle you deeply desire? 

You know what time I’m on .. I wish you all many blessings I know you feel the shift as well. Act acccordingly. 

Shit real. 
Ps. If you are in the NYC area, March 24th stop on by my reading #LustHearIt we will read from 12:24am and discuss the concept of time and personal experiences and opinions on the content of the collection.. More info and RSVP link below 

#LUSTHEARiTRSVP

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Sweetheart,

We hardly talk, I’ve been doing my thang… I know I’ve been foul baby, ay bay, lately you’ve been all on my brain … Yes Ye.

Helllo WordPress. I’ve been running, and while I have the clarity I might as well speak as I catch my second wind.

Time has always been my teacher, I’m always fascinated at the lessons, homework, tests and experiences time provides me with.

Time is relative. To everything.

Read that twice, maybe three times if you have to.

I’m learning what time means to me in spirit, is different from what it means to me in flesh….. Which explains my wisdom. Physically not much time has gone by, I’m only 24…. But my soul and mind has experienced eternities I could never put into words. 

What does this mean?

Everything and nothing.

When I realized how time differs internally and externally…. I started moving different….I’m a bit faster… But I gotta catch my breath. I gotta let time keep up with me just as much as I’m keeping up with it.

Its confusing at first but the deeper you play with time, reflecting on past, present and future.. Living, reliving and analyzing… Taking note of it all, shit starts to click.

Its a pattern.

We as humans become so emotionally invested in each interaction with time … We become so engulfed in the experience we don’t pay attention to what’s important…

The fact that its happening. Whether good or bad. It’s happening. It happened. We get so worked up with WHY is this happening, when why is ALWAYS revealed later, when the timing is right …. Correct me if I’m wrong.

What’s important is, how is this happening to me? …. What is exactly happening ? Who did I give the power to make this happen? … And apply that to past experiences, you know so clearly now. Apply that to current ones, your perspective automatically changes…. When you rephrase your questioning of time’s circumstantial placement for you… You see more why than if you literally asked why? …. Like a teacher, time gonna show you how, who, what and where, … Why is all of the above. That’s why.

That’s really why.

We go through shit because we have to … Its apart of our journey, our path to wherever our soul desires. Time is what we make it, to measure it is cutting it short.

We focus on the wrong things..

Time is a teacher, who doesn’t cater to our childish tendencies… Stern with discipline to master patience… Wisdom is only attained with experience… Time provides you with every experience you NEED to better you…. How fucking lucky are we really?? We just think of what we want to, learn, embody … Life will call on time…. And walllllllahhh BOOM! You got it. The people, the scenery, the ambience requi(red) to make this moment here, possible. All you have to do is LIVE THROUGH IT.

Bitch, you better get the fucking jewels.

TIME NOT FUCKING AROUND.

the finals come sooner than you think, and the test will be your life…. How well will you know it? What will you have to show for it?

Don’t get caught slipping, they don’t want you to value time and all its lessons.

Shit real… And I’m just rambling.

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The Waiting Game.

Does waiting really make us better people? ..

Is uncertainty a cause for wanting to wait?

While we await the New Year, let’s think of why we wait….
Is it for our own good or out of our own fear?

Yes. At times you will have to wait, but there is no doubt in that.

In moments that we feel we can’t wait and we do, we fuck ourselves over.

If you can not wait, don’t.

If you must wait, you will.

I think of the projects I released this year alone, and of the timing, process and result of each one.

I’m content with each one although, in retrospect I could’ve done each better, but that’s life. Only after do you see what more could have been done..

See if I had waited to release my projects they would’ve consumed my focus and hinde(red) my process. I would’ve been so persistent on “perfecting” the art, instead of the process.

To perfect the process you have to keep doing shit as you feel it. You learn so much of yourself every single trip to creation land.. Allowing you to progress and execute more efficiently each time.

Waiting is vital, but knowing when to execute regardless of time is key.

I don’t want to play with waiting when I don’t have to, and I won’t. I know myself enough to differentiate when I have to wait and when I’m being hesitant.

Keeping in mind, time waits for no man…

What are YOU waiting for?

If you’re waiting, are you still making the moves needed to occupy the wait time in the most progressive manner?

Just something to think about.

We’ll meet again next year

Be safe.

Shit real .

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12:24am — Mr. Big Man

Merry Christmas eve! My gift is a little early. As we await the eBook release, I decided to share one of the poetic tales.

MR. Big MAN.

“Oh Mr. Big man… Ohhh Mister Big,Man…

Where are you? ..”

she sings on the phone, she hears him moan,
‘baby, I’m here…’
“no, I don’t see you, I can’t feel you.. Are you real Mr. Big Man?”

She taunts him, His blood begins to rush… Now he’s on his way, she knows what to say, to lead him wherever she lays… so she waits, Mr. Big man busy, doing big man things… but he always finds his way to make his baby sing.. those tunes he loves so much.

Such seduction oozes from her pores to his, when they’re in tangled, handling their business.. Oh Mr. thick dick, how fulfilling is he to Ms. wet pussy.. it’s an even exchange, no need for change. Cash it in, stocks are high… Their portfolio is so exciting.. What an alignment, they play each other’s consignment, money just buys them time.. And they spend it on each other every time, cause truth be told.. they don’t really have the time.

Mr. Big man doing his thing, Ms. Wonder woman creating new things..

So in these moments, it’s just them.

Fuck where they at, Fuck their phones… Fuck everything that isn’t them. They have a contract to fulfill, no thought of ever breaking it, fuck a prenup, or a license.. Their love was timeless, it’s obvious.

Those moments apart, out of sight out of mind? HA! Out of sight, flooding the mind, tickling the spine.. Pushing your memory to the point it could cry, but they have to live their lives… Can’t be constantly intertwined, how else will their love age like wine? The time apart, makes the union much more rare.. makes their presence much more there.

They each feel closer, they’re almost there..

Almost to the point of a full union, they’re both roses from concrete, almost to full blooming..

It’s useless, to deny what is right in front of our eyes…

“Mr. Big Man, Mr. Big Man… Oh I how missed you”, she mutters as she kisses his skin, caressing his limbs, this was the life for him.

He knew no one else could understand him like she did, care for him as she did… push him to the deep end, only to take him higher than before..

He was her Big Man, the only man she ado(red). What a score, he certainly hit the jackpot! And brewing in it was her endless love and passion, she was everything he could ever want, no need to ask him.

He wants nothing else than to have her long term, til death do us part? No. He wanted her beyond that…

He wants her in spirit, so she never has to question if Mr. Big Man leaving.

He breathes for her, she can hear it..

“Oh Mr. Big Man, let me let you in on a secret. This is the realest, deepest love I’ve ever known.. from your breaths, to your moans.. to full ownership from a loan.. I’m yours, take my soul when your body ditches yours.. wherever, whenever.. I want to thrive in the pleasure, of having you next to me, in the afterlife…”, she kisses him with such intensity, he can feel her words still lingering with power from her lips…

He stares deep into her eyes,

“Listen to me, You’re forever with me deep on the inside, your love will keep my spirit forever alive”..

Let me know how you’re feeling that, and check out LustyinLavender.com for a copy. 🙂

Shit real.

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